AGREEMENT
Upon signing, this is a binding contract between the
Dominant and the submissive.
1. TERMS
1.1. CONTRACT
1.1.1. This contract will be in effect for 3 months (90
days), unless other terms are agreed upon later.
1.1.2. This contract can be extended at any time, with
consent from both parties.
1.1.3. Alterations can be made to this contract, in respect
to the terms set forth in SUBSECTION 1.4 and SECTION 2.
1.1.4. The parties enter into this contract on the signed
date, fully aware of its nature, and undertake to abide by its conditions,
without exception.
1.2. SAFETY
1.2.1. The Dominant and submissive agree that anything
discussed, or acted upon; in regards to this contract will be consensual.
1.2.2. The list of hard limits (SECTION 3) will be strictly
adhered to, unless otherwise discussed.
1.2.3. If needed, the following Safewords should be used:
1.2.3.1. YELLOW: This word is to be used when the
submissive is close to his limit of endurance, but does not want to cease all
activity.
1.2.3.2. RED: This word is to be used when the submissive is
beyond his level of endurance, and wants to stop everything immediately.
1.2.4. The submissive will not be punished, in any way, for
using the Safeword.
1.3. AVAILABILITY
1.3.1. The submissive will make himself available for
contact by the Dominant at all times he is not at work.
1.3.2. The submissive must ask permission to do anything
that might infarct on the time of the Dominant.
1.3.3. The Dominant will respect the work, sleep hours, and
important family obligations of the submissive.
1.3.4. The Dominant may release the submissive from Her
service at any time. The submissive may request his release at any time, and
the request will be granted at the discretion of the Dominant.
1.3.5. The terms of this contract are in effect whether at
home or in public.
1.4. COMMUNICATION
1.4.1. When the submissive is talking to the Dominant, he
must remember his role.
1.4.2. If the submissive needs to express his feelings in a
way that is not within his role, or would like to discuss terms related to the
contract, he will do so via email with the Dominant’s consent.
1.4.3. The submissive will write a journal entry each night
reflecting on his relationship with the Dominant. If the quality falls
short of expectations, the Dominant will define the requirements of the journal
entry more specifically.
1.4.4. The submissive will read and respond to all blog
entries of the Dominant.
2. ROLES/RIGHTS
2.1. DOMINANT
2.0.0. ROLE:
The Dominant shall exert as much control as possible over the submissive
with the intention of improving the life of the submissive through Total Power
Exchange.
2.1.1. EXPECTATIONS
2.1.1.1. The Dominant is to provide the submissive with all
necessary training and guidance to properly serve the Dominant. The reason
behind training will be explained to the submissive unless the Dominant has
reasons to not do so.
2.1.1.2. Unless previously discussed, no permanent marks
will be left on the submissive during punishment, and there will be no injuries
that require medical attention.
2.1.1.3. The Dominant will maintain Her own health and
hygiene, in an acceptable manner as She sees fit.
2.1.1.4. The Dominant shall always hold Herself to a higher
standard to be the example of growth She wishes to see in the submissive.
2.1.2. RIGHTS
2.1.2.1. The Dominant accepts the submissive as Her own, to
control, dominate, train, discipline, and correct during the term stated in
1.1.
2.1.2.2. The Dominant has the right to use the submissive’s
body at any time, in any matter She sees fit, sexually or otherwise.
2.1.2.3. The Dominant may discipline or correct the
submissive at any time, to ensure that the submissive fully appreciates his
role of subservience, and to discourage unacceptable conduct. The Dominant
shall explain the reason for discipline and offer the submissive the
opportunity to ask clarifying questions before the discipline/correction is
administered
2.2. SUBMISSIVE
2.2.0. ROLE:
The submissive shall submit his will, personal choices, and all
associated freedoms to the Dominant with the understanding that She will use
Her power to improve him as a submissive and as a person. The submissive
will recognize at all times that he is of lower priority than the Dominant’s
immediately family. He lives to serve.
2.2.0.1. RIGHTS:
The submissive has a right to his own feelings, thoughts, and beliefs.
2.2.1. EXPECTATIONS
2.2.1.1. The submissive will provide a safe environment for
his Dominant to use him fully and without inhibition.
2.2.1.2. The submissive accepts the Dominant as his
Mistress, with the understanding that he is now property of the Dominant. He
will remember his role in regard to the Dominant at all times.
2.2.1.3. The submissive shall serve the Dominant in any way,
and shall endeavor to please the Dominant at all times, to the best of his
ability.
2.2.1.4. The submissive is to obey the Dominant in all
things. Subject to the terms and limitations in this contract, the submissive
shall offer the Dominant any pleasures She requires, and will accept Her
training and guidance in whatever form it may take.
2.2.1.5. The submissive will conduct himself in a respectful
and modest manner.
2.2.1.6. The submissive will not enter into any sexual
relations with anyone other than the Dominant unless She so desires.
2.2.1.7. The submissive shall be held accountable for any
wrongdoings when not in the presence of the Dominant.
2.2.1.8. The submissive must obtain permission from the
Dominant to make purchases for any single item above $200.
2.2.1.9. The submissive will not touch the Dominant in a
sexual manner without asking for permission.
2.2.2.0 The submissive will meditate for 10 minutes every
day in the specific manner that pleases the Dominant.
2.2.2.1. The submissive is to be in bed at a time specified
by the Dominant unless She a) leaves it up to the submissive, or b) exceptional
circumstances mean it must be broken. If it must be broken it will not happen
without the Dominants understanding first.
2.2.2.2. The submissive is not allowed to drink alcohol in
excess of one drink per day, or use any substance, without first acquiring
permission from the Dominant. When in the presence of the Dominant the
submissive must first acquire permission before having any drink.
2.2.2.3. The submissive will eat food as determined by
himself unless the Dominant instructs him otherwise.
2.2.2.4. The submissive will choose his own drinks unless
the Dominant instructs him otherwise.
2.2.2.5. The submissive shall determine an appropriate
amount of calories each day. The Dominant may at any time switch the
submissive to a restricted calorie diet not to fall below 1800 calories per
day.
2.2.2.6. The submissive will greet the Dominant every
morning and wish the Dominant goodnight every night.
2.2.2.7. Each day, the submissive will choose his clothing
and get them approved by the Dominant. He will photo what he plans on wearing
to get it approved. If the Dominant doesn’t reply within 20 minutes it’s to be
assumed approved.
2.2.2.8. The submissive will drive to the Dominant’s
hometown and rent a hotel for two days one weekend of every month. This
can only be foregone with permission from the Dominant.
2.2.2.9. All vacation days that are unplanned by January 30th
will be granted to the Dominant. Should any of them need to be used for
anything deemed an emergency or of critical importance, the Dominant must
approve their usage.
2.2.3.0. The submissive is expected to have the hotel room
prepared before the Dominants arrival to her specifications.
2.2.3.1. The submissive will make dinner for the Dominant
and whomever else She desires at any time, and prepare the menu She desires
2.2.3.2. The submissive will keep his home presentable and
ready for the Dominant as if She were living with him.
2.2.3.3. When the submissive is in the Dominant’s home area
he shall clean Her household to Her specifications.
2.2.3.4. The submissive shall maintain his good health,
shall seek medical attention when needed, and keep the Dominant informed of any
health issues (mental or physical) that may arise.
2.2.3.5. The submissive shall not pleasure himself sexually,
without asking permission from the Dominant. If the submissive does not receive
a response from the Dominant within 10 minutes of a request, permission is assumed
not granted. His cock, balls, ass, and nipples are her toys and he must not
touch them sexually without direct permission.
2.2.3.6. The submissive shall serve any person the Dominant
chooses as long as the limits per 4.2.1. are not breached.
2.2.3.7. The submissive shall have all his time accounted
for each day and provide a detailed outline of his activities to the Dominant
at Her request.
2.2.3.8. The submissive shall perform all masturbation,
edging sessions, ruined orgasms, and otherwise on webcam for the Dominant and
any company She chooses. he is expected to show his face. No video
and/or pictures will be taken that will personally identify the submissive
specifically.
2.2.3.9. The submissive will bathe once a day, and must
obtain permission from the Dominant to bathe more than once a day.
2.2.4.0. The submissive will oblige to being used as an
object by the Dominant. This includes objectification (foot stool, etc.)
and automatonization (massage slave that does not fatigue, tongue slave)
2.2.4.1. The submissive will not act or speak in a demeaning
way to the Dominant, Her husband,or Her children.
3. PUNISHMENT
3.1. The Dominant will make it clear to the submissive that
he is about to be punished. This will be followed by an explanation of
the reason for punishment and the intended results of the punishment.
3.2. The submissive will not look into the eyes of the
Dominant during punishment, unless requested.
3.3. Following punishments, the submissive will thank the
Dominant for correcting his behavior. The submissive will include in his
journal entry what he learned and how he will avoid repeating the mistake or
nonconformance in the future.
4. LIMITS
4.1. DOMINANT
4.1.1. HARD LIMITS:
Sissification, Scat, Age play, Children, Animals, Lactation, Rape play,
Diapers, Tickle Torture, Male Supremacy, Gorean, Race Play, Breeding.
4.2. SUBMISSIVE
4.2.1. HARD LIMITS:
CBT, kissing men, male feet, homosexual activity without Mistress
present, public humiliation (filmed or in/near submissive’s home town), scat,
sleep deprivation, kids, animals, blood, sadists, ANYTHING that could
negatively impact career, consistent feminization, anything with health
implications, body modification (ball stretching, ridiculous sized dildos,
tattoos, etc.), shaving body hair that is not beneath underwear (arms, knees,
chest), restroom restrictions.
5. GOALS
5.1. DOMINANT
5.1.1. To maintain open and honest communication.
5.1.2. To provide the submissive with any and all reference
material he needs to fulfill his goals as a submissive.
5.1.3. To create an open and comfortable environment where
the submissive feels safe and has the opportunity to ask questions without
judgement.
5.1.4. To aid the submissive in creating a positive
self-image.
5.2. SUBMISSIVE
5.2.1. To strive to overcome feelings of guilt or shame, and
all inhibitions that interfere with the submissive’s ability to serve the
Dominant, and limit the submissive’s growth as a submissive.
5.2.2. To maintain open and honest communication. To reveal
his thoughts, feelings, and desires without hesitation or embarrassment.
5.2.3. To strive towards maintenance of a positive
self-image and development of realistic goals.
5.2.4. To work with the Dominant to become a happy and
self-fulfilled individual.
5.2.5. To work against any negative aspects of his ego and
insecurities that would interfere with advancement of these goals.
5.2.6. To ensure his submission to the Dominant is adequate
to fulfill Her needs.
6. CONCLUSION
6.1. This agreement shall serve as the basis for an extension
of our relationship, committed to in the spirit of loving and consensual
Dominance and submission with the intent of furthering self-awareness and
exploration, promoting health and happiness, and improving both our lives.
6.2. We both understand that cancellation of this contract
means a cessation of the control stated and implied within this agreement. Upon
cancellation, each of us agrees to offer the other his or Her reasons, and to
assess our new needs and situation openly and lovingly. I, Bill Smock, with a
free mind and an open heart, do request of Amanda Butler, that She
accepts the submission of my will unto Her and to take me into Her care and
guidance, which we may grow together in love, trust and mutual respect. The
satisfaction of Her wants, desires, and whims are consistent with my desire as
a submissive to be found pleasing to Her.
To that end, I offer her use of my time, talents, and
abilities. Further, I ask, in sincere humility, that, as my Domme, She accept
the keeping of my body for the fulfillment and enhancement of our sexual,
spiritual, emotional, and intellectual needs. To achieve this, She may have
unfettered use of me any time, any place, in front of anyone, as She will
determine. I request of Miss Manda, as my Domme, that She use the power vested
in Her role, to mold and shape me, assisting me to grow in strength, character,
confidence, and being, and that She continue to help me to develop my artistic
and intellectual abilities, and my abilities to serve Her. This i, bill, do
entreat, with lucidity and the realization of what this means, both stated and
implied, in the conviction that this offer will be understood in the spirit of
faith, caring, esteem and devotion in which it is given.
SIGNED
/ 5-30-2015
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The submissive /Date
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5.30.2015
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The Dominant /Date
