Penis Plugs and Chastity

I've been asked several times about My stance on chastity, chastity devices, and why I like to use penis plugs for My male submissive/slaves.  I thought I'd take today to answer these questions a bit more deeply and clearly.

What is a penis plug?

    A penis plug is a toy (often considered body jewelry) that can be inserted into urethra to achieve sexual arousal. It makes the penis more sensitive and responsive, makes erections stronger, and it can intensify orgasm. Another reason to use a penis plug is to imitate the look of a Prince Albert piercing (without actually being pierced).

   There are many different designs of penis plugs. In its basic form, a penis plug is a smooth, metal plug made to be inserted into the urethra. Other designs are made to heighten arousal and to help keep the plug in place. There are many different textured penis plugs as well as penis plugs with a glans ring. The ring keeps the plug in place safely and it also increases pleasure by making the penis harder and more sensitive to touch. Some penis rings are solid while others have a central hole so urine and sperm can be passed freely.

What is chastity?

  Chastity is a form of sexual denial or orgasm denial where a person is prevented from stimulation or access to their genitals. Typically this is done by means of a device  that prevents contact and is locked granting the partner access with a key.
   
    Its pretty common knowledge that most men are driven by their sexual drive.. by their penis.  A man can be very charming, caring, considerate, and attentive to a woman (or man) when they are trying to gain her help in achieving an orgasm (the hunt).  Often, all too often, once they have caught the prey (had an orgasm)  they put those hunting qualities back in their perspective boxes and tuck them away until they yet again need them to fulfill a sexual urge.  I can't tell you how many women I've counseled over the years who say their husbands never even touch them unless it's because he's horny.  How they never get complimented or get help around the house unless their man wants something in return... it's sad but in all honesty it's just the way men are wired.  It's how their chemical structure is made up.  

      When he is in chastity however, his sexual energy is quite different... as if he's always on the hunt but never acquiring the prey.  Those hunting qualities and characteristics are quite prevalent a majority of the time... because the one who has control of their chastity is in complete control... and they have the power to give them the sexual release they so desire.  With that power a man is quite literally putty in your hands to be molded in any way you see fit. 




What Miss Manda enjoys.

      I'm going to get pretty open with you here for a moment readers...  I love, no seriously, love to drive a man completely insane with sexual desire and then leave him wanting.  I have always been a major tease. To watch him squirm is unbelievably sexy.  I want a man to desire Me, to lust after Me, to get aroused and know that he's not allowed to even touch himself without My permission (chastity).   I've not used an actual chastity device in the past however, because I enjoy the look of a penis plug with a glans ring.  I like that it adds to the arousal instead of hindering it.  It's like that little kick in the balls after they are already blue... to know Mistress has just increased your arousal by a hundred percent yet (with the plug) and will take amusement from the situation without allowing release unless She so desires. 
 
       I've been asked 'how can you trust your submissive/slave not to masturbate and cum when you're not around without some sort of chastity device?'   The truth, I can't.  A man is a man is a man.  He can't help that he is a slave to his penis.  Again, it's hardwired into his DNA.  It puts pressure on a man to know that he must be self disciplined in that area, of his orgasms, in the way you want him to. 
     So, say I have brenden as a slave... I get him a penis plug and order him that he's not even allowed to touch his cock (as is stated in Mistress Manda's Rules) without direct permission.   A week later he's wearing the plug and has some dirty thought run through his mind.  His arousal begins and the urethra tightens it's grip on the plug adding to his arousal almost instantly.  He's now thinking 'I'm aroused, this plug feels damn good and I can't touch Myself without Mistress' say so.... Damn it all to hell.'  He knows the plug will add to his orgasm making it even more intense yet he can't even touch himself... the poor sap.  He's now hard as a rock and if in public, quite embarrassed that it's possibly visible to passers by... he's almost humiliated and thinking of his Mistress... of Me.  Now that, to Me, is pure amusement and joy!  Poor brenden is in bondage mentally and it's heightened by the fact he knows he has no physical bondage to prevent him from being disobedient.  His true desire to please Me must take precedence at this point over his own urges and longings. 




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         If you, yes you reader, have any questions you'd like answered or any topics you'd like Me to discuss or rant on please feel free to email Me at 

 MistressAmandaCrystine@gmail.com.