Sensual Domination

Sensual Domination

Monday, May 12, 2014

Mistress Creed

The Mistresses’ Creed

Above all else She cherishes Her submissives, in the knowledge that the submission of thier will to Her authority, is the greatest gift of all.
She has high standards and takes full advantage of the power given to Her, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift.
She is in control of Herself first and foremost, so that She may control others. As a stern and demanding Mistress, She can cause her submissives to cry real tears. As the consummate lover, She will then kiss the tears away, without stepping out of character.
In times of trouble, a Mistress will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals.
She is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality. She would never ask a submissive to put Her wishes before their career or family, just to satisfy Her own pleasure.
To win Her submissive’s mind, body, spirit, soul, and love, She knows to first win their trust.
She will show Her submissives humor, kindness, and warmth.
She always shows them that Her guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of their attention, that this is a Woman they can learn from, and that they can trust in Her direction.
She is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, She will fight for Her submissive's honor. She proves to them that She is someone they can lean on and depend on.
When it comes time to teach Her submissives their lessons of obedience, She is a strong and unyielding professor. She will accept no slackness, nothing less than their best from Her students. Never does She use discipline without a good reason. When She does, it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand.
She is always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear about their needs and desires. She is patient, taking time to learn their concerns, and knowing that as their trust of Her grows, so will their relationship.
She never has to demand ritual behavior from them, they respond to Her out of the want of pleasing Her. Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment. She understands the fragile nature of mind and body and never violates the trust given to Her.
She is secure enough to laugh at Herself and the absurdities of life. Open minded enough to learn new things; Strong enough to grow.
Her tools are mind, body, spirit, soul, and love. She understands that each partner gains most from pleasuring the other.
And both of them know that love and trust are the only bindings that truly hold.





This is the Mistress/Master creed...  I thought I'd share it since I shared the slave's creed yesterday... it's extensive and long.... and I so agree with most of it.. there are a few things I'd alter if I were writing a personal creed....perhaps I should write a Sensual Mistress creed... hmm a project for Myself... interesting.   

3 comments:

Mandasdoll said...

Mistress...Thank You for the post. You have indeed led us in this manner, however, i would be interested in seeing what alterations You would have to make it You own. i kinda am appreciative of how short the slave's creed is - but it is accurate and to the point!

You are remarkable, Mistress - we are all so lucky to have such a caring and nuturing Domme. You are a gift to our lives, and our submission is complete and just a mere token of our love for You...

(again, i trust i can say "our" - don't want to step on any toes, but certainly don't want to rate the levels of our devotion - we seem to all be on the same page - or prostrate on the same floor so to speak!)

Unknown said...

i was also going to say i am interested in seeing which parts You do not agree with and would change. Thank You for sharing this Mistress.

Goddess Manda said...

Well so, the rereading of the creed and correcting My spelling mistakes...shhhh I didn't make any... -winks- I realized there is only one line I would alter in the creed and that line is the one about the crying... though I might have the 'power' to bring a submissive/slave to tears in all honesty the only tears I enjoy are happy tears....
Now, as a Mistress, I want you to love Me, heck even worship Me to an extent (gosh that sounds almost vain). I want you to WANT to please Me in every way... and when you don't, to feel the weight of it. This goes into the discipline/punishment area that I've blogged about today.
As a child once in a while cries when they disappoint mom or dad... so does a slave when they disappoint their Mistress... but then that's not Me making you cry... that's your own actions causing it.
So.. bottom line... I don't or won't.. willingly make you cry.