That's not to say I can't delve out humiliation or embarrassment to a degree to help a submissive/slave grow. I can and will do it from time to time (mostly mental rarely physical). In that though, there is a purpose... it's to help them grow not to belittle them.
Making someone step out of their comfort zone stretches them. Trust Me, I've had to do it several times in My own life.... it's growth in a very uncomfortable way. That growth, is what I enjoy to see. I have no qualms about helping someone grow in their character, strength, and self awareness.... actually that is My goal with any and every submissive I ever take in. It's a nurturing and guiding role.
That can be anything from exploring one's own body to being adventurous and trying new things. (you don't know you don't like it until you try it). If I've a submissive who is shy I might task them with masturbating in the bathroom stall of a public place (of course I'd build up to it over several weeks though), Start simple conversation with someone at the grocery store or sporting event, or sing karaoke at the local bar. It doesn't have to and most likely won't always be kinky. Actually, let Me just say for the record that if you ONLY want kinky tasks.... I'm not your Gal. I work in the mental and emotional side of D/s... the kink is just the fun on the side.
The point is that those under My collar are treasures. Priceless gems I hold ever so dear. I will spend every moment I can making them more than they thought they could be and showing them their worth. It's what I do, it's who I am.
I'm the treasure Keeper.
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absolutely amazing.. Your posts give me the chills to read as if You're inside my head......
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