Submissively Seeking Self Pleasure.

To submissives...

     My goal as a Dominant is not to fuel your every fantasy.  It's not to serve you or make sure you're every whim is satisfied.  I don't sit around all day plotting ways to make your life easier, fuller, or more erotic nor is it My duty to entertain you.  Actually, isn't that your job?  As a submissive those are exactly the things that you should be doing for Me.

    Everyone has needs and desires. It's a fact of life.  In My own opinion, the submissive of a D/s relationship often forfeits their own needs and desires to see to it that the Dominant is satisfied, happy, and served.   That's not always the case, of course but it does happen.  The nature of a true submissive is that they are indeed satisfied simply by the fact that the one they serve is pleased.  Now, hear Me here... I'm not saying that a submissives needs aren't important.  If you are under My collar I do My best to make sure your needs are met along with My own.  However, I'm NOT your fantasy genie.  If you can't serve putting aside your own desires for Mine, then you're out of your fucking mind if you think I will cater to you.  

     I'm so dreadfully tired of meeting submissives (both male and female but mostly male) who will only serve if their desires are being met.  For instance.... I have a friend who keeps asking for a simple picture of the soles of My feet (yeah he's a foot guy).  It's a simple thing no big deal.. but when he asked I told him I wouldn't do it until he did something for Me first.  It was funny really, a joke of sorts between friends... but now I stand by it merely on principal.  I asked him to take a picture perving the produce in a grocery store... nothing that would warrant too much attention or be unhealthy... shit it could be him kissing a gord.  Simple and funny... to amuse Me.  That was a few months ago and I've still yet to see a picture (of course so does he).   Another example... I had a submissive once who LOVED to do kinky things for Me... wear panties, sure no problem.  Put in a penis plug, absolutely.  Go to the store to by ribbon and tell the cashier it's for his Mistress to tie him up, yup done with delight.   But when I tasked him with a video... a simple silly karoake type video where he's being goofy, dressed up, and lip singing to some song for My amusement.... ohhhh it's impossible to do.  Just impossible.  It's too embarrassing and didn't feed his own desires so he never did it.  Then he wasn't a submissive long after that either.   

  Submission, in the Webster's Dictionary, is defined as the action or fact of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person.  Miss Manda's definition... surrendering  control of your life to another.   That means you do what they want you to do when they want you to do it... not only when it serves your own purpose.  

   So, in conclusion... submissives, if you are ONLY in this to have your own self pleased read this, and keep on swimming... I'm NOT the Mistress for you nor am I going to even be a good friend.   I'm a selfish bitch who likes things My way.