Sensual Domination

Sensual Domination

Tuesday, June 9, 2015

Growth... Servant Mistress Series


Personal growth is a lifelong process.  It's a way for you to asses your skills and qualities, consider your aims in life and set goals in order to realize and maximize your potential.

There are many ideas surrounding personal growth but the one I tend to follow is  Abraham Maslow's process of Self Actualization.

Maslow  suggests that all individuals have a built-in need for personal development (growth) which occurs through the process called self-actualization. Meaning that the extent to which people are able to grow depends on certain needs being met and these needs form a hierarchy.  Only when one level of need is satisfied can a higher one be developed.  

For Maslow, the path to self-actualization involves being in touch with your feelings, experiencing life fully and with total concentration.



A Servant Mistress will look to facilitate their submissive's growth by implementing some practical steps...  

Organizing their time.

Producing a personal path for them.

Giving a loving and save environment.

Looking at their skills and abilities regularly.

Overcoming barriers to how they view themselves
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 A Servant Mistress is more likely to receive spiritual insight into what is best for their slave’s greatest good than a Dominant who is providing just enough care giving for the slave to appease their nagging conscience or solely to conform to community expectations.




1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Huge fan of the hierarchy of needs. Definitely believe a Domme can help a sub reach self actualization using this as a loose template!

-bill