Servant Mistress in Action... Servant Mistress Series

   Some people think M/s relationships are all about the slave serving the Mistress. That honestly is just not it at all. In a healthy M/s relationship, the slave will serve the Mistress yes, but the Mistress will also, in her own way, serve the slave.

   I know this sounds counter-intuitive but to be a good Mistress she must also be a good servant.  I don't mean, in any way, that the slave is the one in charge... that is rather ridiculous.  I've seen relationships like that, where the s is topping from the bottom and it's not at all healthy. What I am saying is that part of the responsibility of a Mistress is to see what the needs of her slave is and to care for them. A healthy M/s, like any relationship, is a two way relationship.

   The true M/s is not a celebration of selfishness.  Actually it's quite the opposite, there is a high level of selfless giving from both parties.   When the slave needs the Mistress, she will give what they need. It may not be what the slave wants but it will be what they need.  

   For Me, personally, being a good Mistress requires selflessly spending time to learn all about My slave.  Learning their needs, desires, limits.  Caring for them even in the most difficult of times. It's putting Myself aside when necessary to be the strength and help My slave (submissive) needs.


   In short, a Servant Mistress offers unconditional love for her slaves, her steadfast dedication to her slaves' growth, her passionate faith in the worth of her slaves, and the ability of her slaves to discern and fulfill their purpose. 

   I should state here, as well, that for the Servant Mistress, there is no less fun in leading than in any other form of Topping.  Her noble intentions and passions may cause the leadership of the dynamic to be completely different than most but she enjoys the hot sexy fun of it all!!